Friday, June 25, 2010

Still making headway......

When I hear that term, I always think of a sailboat. I'll never forget the day we went on our first sailboat ride with Dwight's niece and her hubby. Most of that day we were constantly jumping because their little girls were all over the boat. I loved feeling the wind and sun but when I went downstairs, I knew exactly what seasickness is for the first time. I had to lay flat on the bench or I would have hurled all over that boat. Once I made it back upstairs, I was OK. A sailboat moves differently in the water from a motorboat. BigD said it was .... o k...:-). He finally told me, "I could have made it over here and back three times in my boat" and we both knew right then he was not one for sailboats if going any distance at all. I finally got everyone assigned for the 5th Anniversary Party coming up. I had forgotten how much time and work that takes. I also had Gerl bring a sister by and she took a big box of the videos I got rid of. I have just a few more I'm giving to another sister. I also pulled out two containers and have a bag of old clothes to go out the door. I really have two bags - one for trash and one for Goodwill. Page would be so proud. I was so upset yesterday when I opened my bread, chips, cookie drawer and found evidence of another tiny little mouse. I had to toss everything and clean out the drawer. When I told Kurt, he said he was going to bring something that will take care of it. Good. I am so tired of BigD insisting on using a trap - how archaic! Let's poison the little buggers. That picture makes them look so cute but let them eat all your food and leave their little dropping behind as souvenirs. Kurt called to tell me he wanted to bring Harry with them for the weekend and our family reunion. He is Leah's cousin and the one who became a licensed masseuse. I should have said - "on the condition he brings his table" but that would have been rude wouldn't it? Now I have to clean the office a little so he can make his way to the daybed. Kurt said he might take him fishing at a local pond somewhere tomorrow. He really is a nice guy and I'm looking forward to seeing him. I had two of my studies over the phone and paid some bills. I also sent out the last email to family to remind them of the reunion Sunday. I mentioned some of the things we are bringing as a Belma's girls - Pot Roast, Lasagna, butterbeans (really baby lima) and corn, roasted vegetables, chocolate pie, chocolate bread pudding, corn pudding, raw vegetables, pizza, etc., etc.,. Most of the desserts are Mom's recipes. I'm going to really miss Page this year but maybe she will be able to make it next year. I've been busy and on the phone most of the day but still have so much to do - BUT HEY - at least I'm making headway....

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Making progress......

"I believe the single most significant decision I can make on a day-to-day basis is my choice of attitude. It is more important than my past, my education, my bankroll, my successes or failures, fame or pain, what other people think of me or say about me, my circumstances, or my position. Attitude keeps me going or cripples my progress. It alone fuels my fire or assaults my hope. When my attitudes are right, there is no barrier too high, no valley too deep, no dream too extreme, no challenge too great for me.” Charles R. Swindoll- b.1934 So I'm thinking I may need an attitude adjustment in order to make progress. So far, today has been a good day in that respect. I have started the "process" of making progress. I have set goals down in writing and am diligently working on marking through them today. Today - not tonight, not tomorrow - TODAY. So that alone is "me" making progress. I've learned it is different for everyone and can at times be a state of mind. First priority today - schedule BigD's appointment for his colonoscopy - check. Work on who is doing what for party - in progress with messages being left - check. Find out if any needed meds for Miya can be liquid, gel, etc. - check. Acquire CareCredit - check. (Thank you Jangee) Call NCSU Veterinary Teaching Hospital to ensure they take CareCredit - check. Call Miya's doctor to have her make the referral to NCSU for Miya's echocardiogram - check. Bite the bullet and order some of the missing pieces to my flatware - check. Enjoy that Miya has finally forgiven me for her last visit to the doctor and is again demanding to sleep on me and letting me love her to my hearts content - check, check, check. Still have to work on the hard task at hand that I don't want to talk about, study for the meeting, clean toilet, sweep floors, send email reminding everyone of the family reunion this Sunday, rub Miya, say good-bye to what's left of the flowers Page sent me, rub Miya, call more people about the party and take a shower. Waiting for the CHECK!!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Miscellany......

miscellany [mɪˈsɛlənɪ (US) ˈmɪsəˌleɪnɪ]: 1. a mixed assortment of items
Leah just sent me this picture of Page with Miya's brother Hiro sitting beside her. She sent it via telephone and wrote "I think he missed her. He's been sitting with her since she sat down". It is a little blurry but so cute. The house seems quiet tonight without the kids here. Kurt caught this picture of BigD wearing Kurt's hat while they were fishing yesterday. Oh my goodness - it is uncanny how much he reminds me of both his Dad and mine in this picture. The hat reminds me of my Dad but his face in this picture reminds me of his Dad whom I called Pop. He developed his love of fishing from his Dad and several other men in his life. This other picture is of BigD working on a boat ramp for his friend who has a house in Morehead. My dear husband is cursed with having the ability to fix about anything you hand him. Kurt took the fish they caught home and like his Dad, he has become a really good cook and will definitely not let them go to waste. As far as Miya and her condition - I think I am still in shock. I have so much on my plate for tomorrow - after service, I have to handle some important matters for my dear sister Ann. Her daughter-in-law told me she has lost 12 pounds since her surgery (she is already very, very small) and still hasn't spoken to the oncologist. My sister Ruth has so much on her plate for June and July there is no way she will be able to make the trip before August. Leah has told me she will go with me if we go in the middle of the week so that is probably what will be happening in the next few weeks. BigD isn't happy about me driving my car so I'm not sure what I will be doing. I may check flights but every time I have, they have been quite high. I may look into renting a car. We will know more after tomorrow. I'm supposed to talk to Miya's doctor tomorrow also to decide about the echo cardiogram. I guess I need to talk to BigD about it first but don't know yet how that will go. I'm trying to get everyone assigned to what they are going to fix for the anniversary party next month before I leave so that will be taken care of. I love this picture of my friend and most of her big Italian family. Her sister and her family are missing but all of her family along with her big brother and some of his family were present for her granddaughter's graduation party. They carried over the tradition their Dad had instituted for all his grandchildren when they graduated. I'll end tonight with a picture of a ladybug sitting on Page's hand. This was taken awhile back when she and Bentley were hiking I believe. I still enjoy looking at it. I have always loved ladybugs. They are also called lady beetles and ladybird beetles. They are great for protecting plants from aphids, however, they can also take over in a big way as my Page learned when she lived on the farm.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Another week winding down.....

I never get tired of looking at this picture - it represents a luxuriously, slower pace of life to me which is something I long for from time to time. Even though I had a little of that on my beach trip with Eileen, I was only in Paris a short period of time with a migraine to boot, but it was still wonderful. People there walk a lot which I think helps them take their time to notice their environment - something we tend to forget to do here in our fast paced environment. I do work at it though. I love this picture I got of Page on Friday. She wore my hat while we were walking door to door. After service, we rushed over to a house our friend is looking at to rent. We all liked it but she is waiting to hear on another one closer to her Mom's house. After I put together a lasagna for dinner and drained the marinated veggies, Leah dropped me off at DebC's house to meet with the committee. Sounds important doesn't it? We are planning the 5th anniversary party for Jmee and Mac. I wanted them to taste the veggies to see if they are what they want for the party - it is a recipe my boss used to fix and we all loved it. Leah and Page went shopping and came back with the cutest romper for Page. We were laughing about how that style keeps coming around - I wore them when I was a little girl too. The one she has is much cuter than the ones I wore though. She also got a new bathing suit to go with the other one she just got. She is getting taller but when I weighed her to check her sizing for a catalogue we were looking at, she still weighs about 47.6 pounds. Leah also bought this pool for her and will take it home with her so she can enjoy it this summer. We may take it to the beach with us in August. She enjoyed the pool today with her friend Cam. It took me awhile but I finally found a picture of the romper I wore as a little girl. I think my mom made them for us and as I recall, they were very comfortable. They aren't as grown up looking as the one Leah found for Page but I think I like that. It seems we are trying too hard to dress our children as adults. I've always wanted my children to stay children as long as they needed to - being a teenager and grown-up comes fast enough. While I was looking for the romper I used to wear, I ran across another pattern my Mom must have used because I remember wearing them. We had chickens when I was little and the chicken feed came in nice bags made of material women could use to make clothes out of once the feed was gone. Mama would make me these little bloomer shorts to wear in the summertime. For the most part, when it was real hot, I don't think I even wore a top until I was about 4 years old - I remember distinctly the first time I realized I didn't have on a top. Mom used to have a picture of me in a pair of my shorts with a striped t-shirt on. My hair was shoulder length and still kind of light. It was brown by the time I started school. Kurt liked the lasagna last night but I liked what he brought with him much better. There is a gourmet doughnut shop close to where he lives and they are so yummy. I'm sure they can't be too fattening - right? Ahem. Moving on - BigD and Kurt picked up a Johnny Boat at a friends house and then came home to "rest-up" for their fishing trip. I can't blame them - the breakfast BigD made was yummy and even I felt a little sleepy. They are just going to a lake that is pretty close by - I hope they catch a few to make the trip worth while. BigD keeps talking about ordering prime rib from Outback so I think that will be what we have for dinner. Gerl brought some fresh squash from her Mom's garden yesterday so we will add that to the pot. My cell phone just rang that I had a call from Page but I couldn't figure out how that could be since she had called to tell Kurt they were going to a concert to hear The Reign Band. When I answered the phone - all I could hear was loud music so she must have called by mistake. Hope they are having fun. It is now 7:12pm, the sun is starting to slide downward a little, Miya is still sleeping on the back of the chair, Page is in the tub (with a slightly red back from being in the sun in her pool), Leah is texting someone who asked for some information, I'm looking at the flowers Page1 sent me, Andy Griffith's and Opie are on TV and we are all doing okay. I am incredibly sad about Miya's potential health situation but with all the drama that surrounds us daily, we have to remember that life keeps moving forward second by second and what is truly important is to grab on to every sweet thing that comes our way. An example is this darling gift from Lin and Ann - my two spiritual daughters. It was given to me wrapped in purple tissue paper - a dragonfly. They are both so sweet to remember how much I love dragonflies and pottery - of course Ann can't help but remember because I am always trying to snatch her pillow! Leah and I were talking about maybe getting a small suction to attach to the back so I could keep it where I'll see it every day... one idea. So - to all my children, family, friends and loved ones -carpe diem!

Friday, June 18, 2010

Catching my breath.....

Leah took this picture of Miya after I brought her home from the Vet. She put a caption with the picture saying - "doesn't she look innocent?". Makes me smile because that is so true - she "looks" innocent. She had a pretty rough day earlier - we (Leah) noticed some blood in her stool yesterday so I took it to the Vet and dropped it off so they could run tests on it. Took Miya in at noon to get the results and have her nails cut. Of course everyone ooohhhed and aaahhhed over her but then it got a little serious in more ways than one. Turns out the tests showed nothing serious - probably a little tear "back there". However, when the doctor listened to Miya's heart, she heard a heart murmur. They drew blood for tests to see if she has a heart disease. I'm concerned - especially since she isn't even 3 years old yet. Of course the bill was over $200 (shhhh - BigD would kill me) and if they find heart disease, they are going to want to do an Echo Ultrasound - hello? I couldn't help but feel a little anxious as I was leaving the office. She is pretty though isn't she? Getting a little hefty around her behind but hey - she looks like her Mama - what can I say? I'm hoping it is "just" a murmur and that it will just need to be watched. Leah and I were both unhappy to hear it. I took Leah and Page over to a friend's to swim in their pool and then went to the grocery store where I spent WAY too much money. Put together the marinated veggies (made my own marinade according to the recipe my boss gave me) for us to try tomorrow. If we like them, we will serve them at the anniversary party we are planning for a friend. My friend's son gave his first talk on the school tonight. We were all so proud of him. This is her with Leah tonight. She is such an industrious young woman and a very talented artist to boot. She works very hard to make sure her children are safe and happy and includes her extended family and friends in so many fun adventures. Of course she comes from a large productive family. Her grandmother is one of my favorite people of all time. The first time I met her grandmother, I was dating BigD and we went to her house to pick up BigD's older brother (he was 15plus years older than BigD) who was visiting them. She had red hair back then and a house full of laughter and lots of children. She is such an encouragement to everyone who knows her and played a special role in both my children's lives. I also have to mention that a friend's granddaughter graduated this year. There have been quite a few graduating this year but they will have to stand in line for their gifts - can't do them all at one time. I really wanted to put this family picture on here so Page1 can see how the family has grown. She used to baby-sit this young woman when she was just a little thing. She inherited her Dad's height and I hear is a fine young woman. Where did the years go? I also have three other young friends and a great-nephew graduating this year. Spent all their gift money on Miya's doctor appointment today - will have to be patient. Douglas took some pictures this week and sent them to us. At first I thought it was some kind of flower arrangement and then we got the second picture - hello? I have never seen anything that even resembles this but I'll have to admit it is beautiful - in a creepy crawly kind of way. I'm glad Leah decided to stay on - she was planning to go back home on Wednesday when Bri left. Kurt decided to come down and hopefully fish a little with BigD so she stayed on. We are going in service tomorrow and may go swimming at our friend's pool again - I might even have to go this time. Tomorrow will be busy between service, cleaning up at least a little, putting together a lasagna before I go to a planning meeting for the anniversary party. Try to be back before Kurt gets here and have a nice meal together.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Great friends, great new wine, great food and good day overall.....

Okay - it has evidently been a much better day because all of a sudden I wanted to bake a pie - not just any pie - one of Mama's (and her Mama and sisters) trademark pies - Chocolate Pie. I was very disappointed in the last one I made so this one made me very happy (and BigD gave it a big thumbs up). We had already decided we would order a pasta I've discovered that I really, really like. After my sister Rose came by earlier today, I also talked on the phone with Eileen and Fran. Why is it that I've been blessed with such good friends? As I've gotten older, I've learned the difference between my good friends and those to whom I am a good friend to only. It doesn't mean I don't value the ones I'm good friends to only because I do; but I do feel I've have been blessed with some that are truly good friends to me and for that I'll be eternally grateful. Before BigD went to pick up the pasta and salad, he opened the bottle of wine I had put in the fridge to cool. When he showed it to me I was shocked - it wasn't the Kendall Jackson I thought it would be. It is a 2008 Chardonnay called Catena and was made in Mendoza Argentina. From looking at the label (which is a pretty cool label) this wine is made by a family who have been in the business awhile. Amazingly, I really liked it so will have to check it out at the store to see how much I paid for it! I know - kind of scary isn't it? We are waiting to hear back from BigD's niece - it seems his sister is going to have to have knee replacement surgery. We want to be put on the schedule to take care of her during her recovery and pt time so her daughters and granddaughters aren't overloaded. Eileen's hubby is having a knee replacement surgery Monday so I know she is going to be so busy for awhile. I hope his surgery goes well as I do my sister-in-law. Fran was working on her talk for next week. She said she liked the new format of my Blog as does Katarina - will have to wait and see how the kids like it. So far - nice, slow Saturday........

New Look .... let me know what you think....

As you can see, I'm trying a new look for my on-line journal. I guess I'm in the mood for something lighter even though I loved the look of the old one. Hopefully by trying this I haven't lost the old one for good. Oh man - that would be a bummer. Sometimes I'm still quite challenged with this format. I'm not sure of how the pictures sit on the page. Hmmm - like I said, needed something light, bright and airy to look at for awhile to help me keep positive thoughts. What do you think? Honestly - make comments and let me know or send me an email if that is easier. I'm also hoping my daughter will start blogging again - she just has not had time because of her serious work schedule. It was actually hers and Ann's blog that ultimately got me blogging. She is an excellent writer and has a wonderful way of stating the obvious that I enjoy reading as well as being a great photographer. No Page - this isn't a hint or pushing you - just a wish.